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I'm confused. I have been on a couple of these sites trying to see what it means to be Wiccan/Pagan/Shaman, etc, etc. What I have been mostly seeing is people with goth make-up, fake vampire teeth and contacts, trying to make themselves look dead or evil, upside down stars(which I'm pretty sure is a sign of Satanism) and wicked nick names which don't sound spiritual or in line with the beauty of…